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Let's have a serious discussion, shall we? I want to talk about commenting. Specifically, why don't you comment?
I used to be a commenting fool. When I first started blogging, I would go to someone's blog and click on their favorite blogs, reading and commenting at each blog. I became a SITS girl. I had a policy that if you commented on my blog, I would read your blog and comment. It's the polite thing to do, in my opinion. If someone goes out of their way to visit you, the polite thing to do is to return the favor.
Then life got in the way. I got pregnant and took a blog hiatus. When I returned after having a baby, I was lucky if I had time to write a post, much less read and comment on other blogs. If you commented on my blog during that time, I am sorry. I appreciate your comments, and your readership means so much to me. I am doing my best to slowly but surely get back in the swing of things.
I've noticed that since I started blogging (semi) regularly again, my comments have been less and less. I don't think this is happening just to me. I've talked to other bloggers about this subject, and they have said the same thing. Please don't misunderstand - I'm not complaining, and I'm not begging you to comment in an attempt for gratification. I really just want to understand, and I want to know if there is something specifically I'm doing that I could do better as a blogger.
I really want my blog to be interactive. I love my readers, and I like getting to know you better. I can only do that when you comment and leave a link to your blog. I want my blog to be a place you like to visit, and that you come back to every time there is a new post. I worry that maybe you don't like the things I'm blogging about. Maybe you do like my posts but I'm writing them in a way that doesn't encourage discussion. Is it me? If I smelled, I'd want you to tell me. If I'm a bad blogger, I want you to tell me as well.
I'll be honest: I'm not the best commenter. I'm no hypocrite so I'll just go ahead and admit I lurk on a great number of blogs. I have 200 blogs in my Google Reader, and of that, I comment on about 30 of those blogs. There are many reasons for this:
- If a "big" blogger already has tons of comments (like more than 50) I sort of figure "what's the point?" I am guilty of thinking my comment doesn't matter to them.
- I have a limited amount of time to read blogs. There are about 150 posts a day in my reader... I just don't have time to make it to all those blogs.
- Some posts I just have nothing to say about. I hate commenting just to comment. "Hey!" or "Have a great day!" are just things I won't say. If I don't have something encouraging or productive to say, I skip the comment.
- Some people make it to dang hard to comment. I HATE word verification. I still will comment if you have it, but I don't like it.
Please give me your thoughts on this subject.
Do you comment?
If no, why not?
What makes you want to comment on a blog?
What about my blog specifically makes you want to comment or not want to comment?
Is there something I could do to make my blogger better for you as a reader?
If you comment and leave me some constructive feedback, you will be entered to win a $30 Amazon gift card. You will only be entered to win if you comment specifically about this topic. I'll announce the winner next Friday, October 1st.
57 comments:
Being a fellow blogger, I'm having the same issues. I have found that where I used to comment like crazy...now? I'm like you and comment when I truly have something to say. Maybe it's just a phase we're all going through? I do hope you're going to be a tiny bit crafty with the upcoming holiday season because I tend to hunt down your crafts to try my own self. I promise, if you do a craft and I can find the stuff to do it? I'll blog with pictures! That gives us at least one more post a piece before the new year! ha!
Hello,I see you have some of the same feelings I do.Please do not feel bad.I have been blogging off and on for years and I have learned about what is happening here and unfortunately I have become one of THOSE people.First,I will explain that Not even the top bloggers get more than two comments on the best of days.Although an eye catching title might make someone stop and read it,they rarely comment because they are blog hopping and don't have time.
Second,so many people are looking for giveaways and that is the only reason they ever look for blogs.I am becoming one of those people.That is how I found you today.I am sorry to say but it is true.I am hunting around for giveaways while my son sleeps because I am trying to buy Christmas presents.So well over half the people in the bloggy world are giveaway hunters and the others just blog hop and don't have time because they are at work or are just busy.I bet people read you,they just don't comment.
I maybe get a comment or two every other post I write.
Take care and keep your chin up!
I agree with all of your points on why we want comments and why we sometimes cannot leave them.
I try to comment as often as I can but like you said sometimes I have nothing to say about that particular post.
It is thrilling to see a lot of comments on a post that you've written and puzzling when you don't receive any. If you learn anything fabulous be sure to share!
I'll come out of the woods for a chance to win :)
I'm always readying your blog, but think I'm like most people - just dont take the time to comment.
I find I comment more on the people that comment on mine... but doesnt mean I dont read everyone elses blogs.
I have to make myself try not to worry about comments because like yesterday, I thought I had a great post & had 2 people comment... it can get to you if you let it...
just know people are still reading :) & care about whats going on in your world
OH commenting...my comments have dropped from anywhere between 2-10 comments per post and I KNOW it's because I have stopped commenting. Boo.
Here's the thing, there has to be a balance. So one, I have to stop being so lazy. If I have something to say, then I do. Particularly if someone needs support or advice. But if I don't have anything to say then I don't. Because honestly, it really is difficult when you read 200 blogs to comment on ALL of them. It's impossible. We'd be here ALL day. But I always try to reciprocate to those that always take time for me, and I always try to leave love for those who need it!
Not new or profound advice, but it helps me!
I read a ton of blogs every day while I'm supposed to be working and find that I feel shy about leaving comments. I am afraid I will come off sounding stupid or have a grammar issue that someone will catch. For me, it is a self-confidence issue, I suppose.
I read often - I guess I should start leaving a comment to let folks know I "stopped by".
I actually think I could have written this post. I always feel guilty when people comment on my blog and I don't comment back as often as I should. I agree totally about the "big blogs." If I see a post has a million comments, I always think..."what's the point of my little comment?!" LOL. I usually comment if I agree with the post or could have written the post myself. I also comment if the blogger made me laugh. Oh and I will always comment if the blogger shared some adorable pics of their offspring. :)
I feel the same way about word verification! I hate it! I know that for me, if I read a post at work in my google reader I won't take the time to comment everytime (except now!) so that may be a reason for less comments. Lately I've been trying to be better about commenting!
I so agree with you Andrea...with switching jobs, I was so busy during the summer, that I didn't have time to comment, let alone read some of my favorite blogs...your's being one of them! Thank goodness, you're a Facebook buddy otherwise I wouldn't see pics of Cooper..who, by the way, is a total doll!
My comments have dropped, as well as the amount of posts that I do. I love comments just like the next person, but I'm guilty of blog hopping too!
Hugz...have a great weekend!
Michele
I try to comment on at least half of the blogs I read in any given day. Usually I comment when I can relate to what the blogger said or when I have a similar viewpoint or story. I don't know if that's annoying or if it's seen as one-ups-man-ship (is that a word?) I also wish the comment box had a spell checker. If I have something profound to say, but I'm not sure if I can get it out spelled correctly or grammatically correct I usually just stay mum.
I find that I only comment if I truly have something to say. If the blog post does not "speak" to me then I usually don't comment. I usually always visit those that comment on my blog and leave a comment. If the blog is a "mommy blog" or a "review" blog then I find it more difficult to comment because I have only found maybe one or two reviews that I was even remotely interested in and my children are grown so I am kind of removed those conversations :) I do try to find at least one post to comment on though - just out of courtesy.
Comments are kind of like the old saying "in order to have friends, you have to be a friend". Of course, just like in real life, not everyone you are a friend to will return that same gesture and not everyone will return comments.
I don't comment that often. Sometimes someone has already said what I would, so why say it again? Other times I don't have a response, especially if the post is about a topic that I don't relate too. I don't mind reading about people's kids or mommy experiences, but since I don't have kids I can't always relate.
IMHO, you are fabulous and don't need to do a thing differently.
For me, it goes in cycles (as do most things) maybe a lot of your bloggie friends have slacked off and therefore don't comment as much. So, you have to go to new friends or different avenues to meet "new friends." If people like you, they'll comment and be back. Maybe they just can't identify and therefore don't comment. ???
BTW- I was re-reading an old post about your hair coloring tutorial. I seriousley may need that soon!
The is my first visit to your blog so I'm not sure if I can offer any feedback on your commenting style for you! However, I completely agree with your take on commenting.
I don't visit the "big" bloggers very often because they have so many people commenting already. I love finding new blogs on SITS but, just like you and so many other bloggers, who has the time to comment all the time! We barely have enough time to read the blogs in our reader. But I always comment when I am moved by the post in some way or when someone has paid my blog a visit.
-Aimee
www.aintyomamasblog.com
I totally am with you on a. I don't have anything to say and b. If it's a "big" blogger, I think, whats the point? eeks... does that make a horrible bloggy person ;)
I love this post because it hits so close to home for me!! I recently posted on my feelings of blogging and how I had to "down size" in a way in order to get back my blogging mojo! I too had over 200 blogs in my GR and I would have 100s of posts to read per day! It got overwhelming!!
I have the VERY same reasons for commenting that you do!! So glad to know I am not alone!
I LOVE your blog and I LOVE what you write!! I will usually comment if there's a specific thing I want to comment on. You are NOT a bad blogger and LOVE following you on Twitter too!!
I have been feeling the same way about comments recently...that they have trailed off a bit. I think some of it is the ability to read blogs on your phone. I have an I Phone and it is so easy to read blogs on there, but with the app I have, I can't comment. If I really feel strongly about something I will go back to my computer and comment, but it's hard to remember to do that sometimes. I definitely don't comment as much as I should, or would like to.
I feel the same way about 'big bloggers' too. I rarely comment because I wonder if they even have time to read a comment by little old me.
I HATE comment verification too. Drives me crazy!.
All in all, I don't quite know what the problem is. I feel the same way
I am going thru the same thing right now too. I am commenting less right now too. I feel like I need to clean out my reader, but I only read people I like. Dilemma. Maybe the blog world is in an ebb and flow right now.
I absolutely HATE word verification and that keeps me away from commenting. I comment on two circumstances- giveaway and subjects that interest me. There are several blogs who share meaningful and thoughtful posts that I can relate, those earn some comments as long as they don't do word verification.
I am lazy. I love to read, but unless I have something profound to say, I rarely comment. : )
What a BAD BLOGGER I am!
I'm with you. If it's a "big" blogger...and I'm saying something for the 18th time, I just don't comment. Also, if it's a post on a subject where I can't impart any real life experience - I tend to not comment. I don't want to comment just for the sake of commenting. But, that said, I do try to comment as much as possible... :-)
Thanks for you advice to me on this very subject today. I am in the same boat so I am interested in hearing more advice that you get on this subject. I love being blog stocked and making "friends" but I am not sure if there is anyone out there loving me because I don't get very many comments.
I am a commenter when I find something I want to comment on. I enjoy debates and reading what others have to say. I love leaving comments on blogs I can identify with. I especially love answering a question the author asked because then I know they are interested in hearing from me.
I am just new to your blog so I can't tell you why I haven't been commenting but often times if I don't leave a comment it is simply because I don't have anything to say.
Thanks for stopping by Craving Chocolate and Lazy Days....keep passing along the advice!!
PS! I am your 400th follower! I can feel the confetti and balloons falling down on me now! :)
I agree, the comments have fallen off and aren't nearly as frequent as they used to be. I also rarely comment on blogs that have 50+ comments and I hate commenting just to comment!
Rather, I like bloggers who write posts that you want to respond to. Not just life updates and such but really interesting posts that make you think about your life and then you want to respond because they got you thinking!
I've been trying to kick back into commenting mode but it's hard to find those blog posts that make you want to share with the writer.
I try to comment as much as I can, but I got really busy this summer with vacations and such. I think I lost some of my readership then too. So yes I try to comment when I can, but sometimes I still just don't have enough time to read all the posts in my reader and I feel guilty so I just mark "read" on them all (if I've been away for a few days and have TONS of unread posts). Also, sometimes I just can't relate to the post or I feel weird telling someone their kid is cute for the 50 millionth time.
What a great post! I myself am guilty. Like you I follow lots of blogs. And between work, kids, and life in general getting more and more busy, I comment less so I can read more. I certainly try to return comments if left on my blog. I also hate the comment word verification thing and those who use the blog type that forces you to login to something other than blogger or leave your website address. The more cumbersome the less likely I am to comment. =( Sad, I know. I've also neglected my blog lately but again, so I can read more of them! I might get interrupted by the kids while reading and get distracted 2.
Do you comment? I comment if there are 5 or less comments on the post, and if I have something to say.
What makes you want to comment on a blog? If I can relate to the blog post.
What about my blog specifically makes you want to comment or not want to comment? It all depends on the post topic.
Is there something I could do to make my blogger better for you as a reader? I really enjoy your blog :) keep up the great work
I usually comment on a blog if it's something that really interests me and if I have the time! I seem to fly through my feeder these days trying to read as much as possible in a short amount of time... makes it hard to comment on every.single.post.... I try to comment on the blogs that I've built a bloggy relationship with- you included!
Thanks for making your entire post show up in the reader. I hate when you have to click through to read a post... that's annoying and I usually skip that blog all together.
Happy Friday!
i'm with you! i have a limited amount of time to read and comment on blogs. i usually 'de-lurk' when there is a topic being discussed i feel strongly about... or a giveaway! :-)
thank you!
shen
divertida(at)fastmail(dot)fm
I have my own little blogging policies. I too try to return every comment with a comment, it only seems fair. If I absolutely can NOT get to their blog to comment, I at least try to respond to their comment through an e-mail. I know that is not the same, but they know that I did read the comment and I do appreciate it. There are a select amount of blogs I follow that I make a point to visit and comment their blogs at least a couple of times a week, whether they've been to my blog or not. I just love them and enjoy reading the content on their blog. On any given day, there are over 200 blogs to be read in my Google Reader...it's overwhelming, so I after I've visited my select blogs, I just hop around until I run out of time. The blogs with the titles that catch my eye get read first. That's my process.
I started writing on another blog back in May and I've found it very hard to balance the two. I think sometimes bloggers get over committed in their blogging lives.
I love visiting you and commenting...you're one of my favorite bloggers! You always have interesting content that I can relate to or connect with. I say just keep doing what you're doing!
Hope you're having a fab Friday!♥
Very good subject. Here are my thoughts:
First-When looking at blogs I'm usually at work and some blogs have a different posting system that wont allow me to do so, sometimes I just can't make a comment.
2nd- same as previous commenter's...if they already have 50 messages saying how wonderful their paint color is, I don't see the need for me to comment.
3rd- sometimes I don't agree with a post or don't like what they did...why be mean? I was so happy when NieNie took her comments down because seriously, you had to wear gloves to make a comment there.
And last, I feel that a few blogs are just competing for attention, some have lost their appeal by being so competitive and, should I say, full of themselves.
Hey! Interesting topic! I too, like you, rarely-- if ever-- comment on the popular blogs. Some people can buy a 12 pack of pencils and get 100 adoring comments. I am obviously NOT one of those bloggers.
If you write/comment to me, I'll make an effort to write/comment to you for sure. I tend to comment more when only 1-5 other people have commented and skip the ones with a ton of comments.
I'd love to comment more on your blog, but I don't have a baby at the moment and much of what you post about is your baby. I still love reading, but I don't have a lot to say.
If you post more about current events, movies, tv, clothes, marriage, annoying things the hubby does I'll be sure to comment if it applies! =)
I don't really comment very often on the blogs I read these days.
1) I think we're all so used to FB where you can just "like" something. It's easy feedback.
2) It takes a LOT of time. I really do try to comment on blogs, but really, there are just not enough hours in the day! I am the same way as you, and have tons of blogs that I read.
3) I've noticed the same thing on my blog. I used to get a lot more comments. I just don't anymore, and I think it's because....
4) As a whole, bloggers don't comment as much anymore. Yes, the "big bloggers" still receive quite a few, and probably always will, but quite a few of them I've noticed don't get as many comments.
5) I *hate* word verification. I do. But every time I take it off, I get probably 5 spam comments per day. Per day. That's a lot of blog maintenance. What I might do is moderate all of my comments, and delete the spammers right then and there.
Hopefully some of that is helpful. You're not alone.
First of all, I am NOT commenting only to win the gift card, although it would sure be nice :)
I have the same issues. I do not get as many comments as I did when I was more active in blogland. When I started all of the blog reading/writing, I was a single mom who worked at home part time and I had all day to play around and comment. Then I went to work fulltime, and my kids got older and more active in extra curricular activities and my blogging and commenting have been cut down to less than half of what I did before.
To be honest, I read each and every one of your posts, even if I don't comment, still know that I am here :)
Do you comment?
I do comment, mostly for giveaways. If a post is really good or heartfelt I will also comment.
What makes you want to comment on a blog?
I like blogs that are insiteful and teach me something I didnt know before. That makes me want to comment.
What about my blog specifically makes you want to comment or not want to comment?
I'm a new follower to your blog.
Is there something I could do to make my blogger better for you as a reader?
I think every blog needs good pictures and lots of them. I too have over 150 blogs in my reader. I skim most of them, unless a good picture catches my eye.
I don't think it should really be about the comments but that would depend of what type of blog it is too.. A blog like a craft Blog where they would like an opinion then I leave one, a cooking blog if I really like something I see or have a question I'll leave one.. A random day to day blog, I'll leave a comment if the topic they are talking about relates to me in someway.. If I don't care about what they are writing about or have an interest in it.. I won't leave a comment. Music, if I hear it I will leave and not read or comment.
While I'm a blogger as well and I have 2, wait now 3 blogs I'm maintaing.. It gets hard to respond to all the comments that people leave.. But I don't care if the leave a comment either. If I know people are coming and reading it then that's fine.. I don't expect them to leave me a comment If they want to great... But I don't care either way. I don't think the number of Comments makes it a better blog.
I think too many people write to please others... and that's not fun.. Blogging should be about what you want to write about.. It's your stage to say what you want and be the real you!
If your are writing a blog for a Magazine or a Business then that's different. You need to be professional on that space.
But overall Who cares!!! This is your corner of the world.. it's all yours don't worry about what others think of your blog or what you are writing about!
Sorry, but you wanted it straight right? lol
For e sometimes it just depends on how my day is going if I can comment or not- if I am swamped, I quickly read and plan to come back later to comment. Unfortunately, sometimes "later" never happens. There are times when I am just not in the mood to comment too (just keeping it real) and so I don't/ But I feel like you do- I miss getting comments on my blog, so I try to be diligent in visiting and commenting atleast 2-3 times a week to keep my readership up.
~Becca
Honestly? I'm usually reading through my Google Reader and just don't bother to click through unless I have a good reason or something to say. Lazy? Probably. And I rarely get comments on my blog, so you'd think I would just to get some back, right? But I'm going to try to make more of an effort!
I think Google Reader killed the Blog Commenters. I was just like you when i first started reading blogs - random blog surfing, commenting regularly. Now I read through Google Reader, mostly on my phone, and am too lazy or busy to click over and comment. And I loathe word verification too - makes it difficult to comment from my phone. But I miss the interaction that comes from commenting on blogs.
My blog has never had a lot of comments, but I'm not a big commenter myself. I try stop by a few places a week. I tend to comment when posts are on the shorter side.
Thanks for visiting during my SITS Day!
I sometimes get shy to comment bc I feel like people are going to think I'm weird for being interested in what they have to say. I don't want to come off as a crazy stalker.
I have a TON of blogs on my reader, so I usually only comment if I am intrigued by the topic. But once I find I blog I like, I have to go back through their archives reading everything else they wrote too.
And although I agree with you on word verification, but I understand the need for them when blog get attacked by spammers
I used to comment on every post on every blog. I stopped doing that though because sometimes I really just have nothing to say about the post. And some people who follow me only leave one comment and then I never hear from them again. So I don't know if they still read or not.
I used to follow someone's blog if they followed mine out of common courtesy but I kind of just changed that rule. Someone just recently started following my blog but she didn't comment. I checked out her blog and didn't care for it at all so I opted not to follow back.
I do enjoy your blog but I miss reading about the dogs. I know your life has changed dramatically since you started blogging though and it's not all about them anymore. I love your posts to Cooper each month, those are pretty cool and I hope you show those to him one day when he gets older.
I agree with so many of the things that have already been said. Sometimes I don't comment because I just don't have the time. Other times it's because I can't relate to the topic or I just have nothing to add to what's already been said.
On the other hand, I love receiving comments and interacting with other bloggers, so I do try to comment often, especially on my favorite blogs.
I think the biggest problem with commenting is google reader. i wish google would get their act together and there was a way you could comment straight from google reader withOUT having to go to the actual blog. for me, this would increase my commenting on other people's blogs.
I get people coming out of the woodworks when I do a giveaway (which I've only done a few).
I like your blog layout, that's how I found you, I was thinking about doing a blog makeover with the design girl.
I must say that I fall into the same category at times. I have some days where I post and then visit and comment like crazy! There are other days when I can only respond to the comments made on my blog. And then there are the "catch up" days. I have two boys with another on the way and can't always respond to everything, but like you I do appreciate the visits and comments! I usually make it a point to comment if I want to try and reproduce a craft or recipe, to give encouragement, or to answer questions.
I read so many blogs that there is just no way to comment on them all. I do try to comment on a few a day, but there is only so much time in the day. I usually comment if I really have something to say. Sometimes you just read a post that speaks to you.
Hey hun, I don't want to enter but I did want to write and say hi! I love reading all of your posts. I have been awful about commenting especially since Trey was born but I can assure you I'm all over everyone's blogs! I'm usually reading them on my phone while I'm nursing Trey!! :) You have a wonderful blog and I learn so much from you! Thanks for being you!
Hope you are having a good weekend!! xoxo
I think your blog has changed a lot since you became pregnant, but it's still a good blog. It's just different. So much of the focus is on being a new mother and so on, and while I read it pretty regularly I don't always have advice or opinions because being a mommy is so foreign to me, you know?
I definitely still read it and do comment from time to time, but I know what you're saying. There are days I write a post in which I'll get many (20+) comments and times in which I don't get many at all. I'm not sure why it happens. I think different topics just interest different people, you know?
I think you're a beautiful lady with a beautiful family, and as long as you write, I'll read it. Just saying..
I was just thinking the exact same thing tonight. It used to be that I would get (and return) comments all the time. And somehow life took over and they all stopped (both ways). So tonight I started blog hopping and commenting on every blog I've stumbled on. I'm glad to see that I'm not the only one feeling this way though.
I do comment. I do the same - if you comment, I'll read your post and comment back. Though there have been MANY times where I was weeks behind but it's great to interact with my readers.
CLOTHED MUCH, a modest fashion blog
I've been reading your blog alot, always enjoyed it. And this is a great topic. I'm a commenter, but sometimes it's hard, I agree, some posts just leave you with nothing to say, and generic comments just aren't my thing. But people who leave a comment on my blog, I always make a point in responding in some way or another. I especially love when you comment on blogs who take the time to personally respond via email.
I do comment sometimes. I have a multitude of blogs to read and am not consistent with reading, much less commenting. If something relates to me or teaches me something that I value, I will generally comment. I also comment if a post makes me laugh out loud. Truly, I think the growing popularity of Facebook has harmed the blog world in general. It's easy to describe what happens to you daily in a few sentences, than to create a huge post about it. I also read lots of blogs that have pictures. That keeps my attention!
I love your blog because of a little camaraderie of being a fellow Navy wife. Your son is cute and I value the posts you wrote about what to expect when I will someday have a child. I love hearing stories of your precious puppies too!
I do my best to comment when I can, but honestly it's just not that easy. I ALWAYS, and I do mean ALWAYS, have 1000+ blog posts in my Google Reader. It's insane. It's gotten to the point where I just slowly make my way through the blogs, covering as much as I can in one day, and continuing on the next day. I catch up on all the posts for that blog, and I try to comment on one of the most recent. Sometimes, I just don't have anything to say. So I think that's where my problem lies. I just never can get caught up. I'm at the point where I think maybe I need to start weeding out instead of adding more, at least until I get it under control.
For the record, I love your posts about Cooper. That's probably because I have baby fever but I really enjoy seeing pictures of your little family and hearing how Cooper is growing and changing.
I only comment if the blog post interests me or I have an opinion on the subject. Unless I have something good to say I just don't bother commenting. It bothers me when people leave one word comments or say good post. If they leave a comment like that how am I to know what they thought was good about it?
I love witty posts or posts full of detail because most of the time I can find something to relate to.
I am more likely to post if the blogger asks specific questions at the bottom of post, for example how you have at this post. Many bloggers make most of their posts about family, which is nice but it can feel like I am intruding on a private thing and I won't often comment on those posts.
All in all you do a great job and I am not all that sure what would get more comments.
Good luck though!
thepricklypinecone(at)gmail.com
I am a new follower, so I can't yet comment on what specifically about your blog makes me want to comment or not comment, but I DO know what my biggest deterrent to commenting is (besides time)!
Word verification!!!! It can take SO long that I don't even bother on most unless I KNOW they don't have word verification. I don't really understand why ppl need this...if you make it where you approve your comments before posting them, then you don't have to really worry about spam or ugly comments because you can just delete them before anyone else sees them. I think that if most bloggers stopped using this then more ppl would comment on all blogs because you wouldn't cringe when you wonder if that's going to come up..and sometimes I do comment and then that comes up but I don't notice and then my comment never gets entered :( Sadness :( Good topic! Thanks for asking!!!
stephanie
stephanierosenhahn at yahoo dot com
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